If you let your singleness control you, it will lead you on a path of destruction, and the further into that path you go, the harder it will be to get out.

I remember when I was a kid, I was watching this cartoon where a character put a marble-sized snowball at the top of a snowy hill and rolled it down. As the snowball rolled down the hill, it got bigger and bigger, and when it reached the bottom of the hill, the snowball was huge, and it pummeled the character at the bottom of the hill. A path of destruction is like this snowball. The problem starts out small. If you fail to take care of the problem, it will get bigger and bigger, then it will pummel you.

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